Find an excuse
Please do not criticize each other, because this is full of ego and pride. But find an excuse for your brother’s error which is a testimony of humility and love. The person who does this will find a lot of grace from God. However the person who criticizes and scandalizes other people, should know that not only will not find any grace from God, but even if has some will lose it in order to learn the lesson of humility through falling.
Archimandrite Efraim Filotheitis of Arizona